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Advice on Attraction Xuma argues that most of the problems men face in romance and attraction stem from a gender disadvantage: women are socialized to be collaborators and communicators from early childhood, while men are socialized as independent and competitors.His instruction aims to rehabilitate of a man's self-confidence.
He also produces and records the Advanced Audio Coaching each month - now in its third year!
The methods and techniques you learn in his various programs teach you how to be more successful with women by winning at your INNER game. And if a man is going somewhere in life with a passion, women will want to be a part of that lifestyle. You learn how to succeed with women by being the best man you can be - from the inside out.
Inner game is the sense of selfconfidence and self-esteem that a true Alpha Man feels when his life is together. Carlos' dating tips and advice for men are seen and/or heard on World Talk Radio, Maxim Radio, Double Agent, Summum Magazine, The Dating Insider Book, Bikini Hangout, About.com, Seduction Lair.com, Don Juan, and many more online and offline publications.
Xuma is noted as saying: "You will learn more about yourself in the context of a long-term relationship then you will in any other way.
As the internet came along and the seduction community exploded in 2005 to 2006, Carlos continues to stay focused on natural game by drawing out authentic personalities to attract women, and creating your entire Alpha Lifestyle.
These attractive qualities, Xuma states, have not changed - only undergone an evolution.
Relationships are no longer what they once were - required for survival, and that the only remaining enticement of marriage and long-term relationships is self-improvement.
Carlos has appeared on/in: Playboy Magazine CBS & ABC television Neil Strauss' Stylelife Maxim Magazine David De Angelo's Dating Gurus The Allen Handelman "Rock Talk" Radio Show Playboy Radio World Talk Radio Summum Magazine Maxim Radio Carlos Quotes A lot of guys read too much into how to get a girlfriend.
In truth, starting a relationship with a nice, good-looking woman is not that difficult, so long as you don't blow it right from the start.""One of the biggest factors in how to get a girlfriend is not what TO do, but rather what NOT to.""So just remember that women need to be touched quickly and confidently when you first meet them.
Some of his qualities to emulate: * Imagination - Creative problem solver * Education - Intelligent and aware * Sophistication - Knows what quality is * Aggressiveness - Going after what he wants * Directness - Telling her exactly what he wants * Physical - Willing to advance and move forward with women sexually * Humor - Ability to tease and not take women (anyone) seriously If there's one thing I can tell you about your self-confidence that will help you understand your situation with women, it's this: You will only attract the level of woman that your level of self-confidence will allow.
About Author: Carlos Xuma is well-known by just about any guy who is interested in getting better with women.
Yes, I realize he's a fictional character, but there isn't a movie in that series that doesn't demonstrate how a man with impeccable self-confidence would act.